Wednesday 30 July 2014

Summer fun



Hurrah! At last, Eve slept through the night last night, for the first time in about 6 weeks. What with teething pain, an unusual bed in Greece and hot weather creating sleepless nights I think (and hope!) that we've just come through the other side.

It was a couple of degrees cooler last night, plus the fan was on an even higher setting - this seemed to have done the trick. Or maybe it was due to Eve eating three good meals yesterday, who can say?

We have good and not-so-good days with her meals, but it's definitely coming together slowly but surely.

We are off on a motorhome extravaganza later this morning for some Fergusson family fun times. I'm really hoping that sleeping will go ok. Fingers massively crossed. We've bought a new Peanut shell baby Sling (Tkmaxx £17 - can't go wrong, eh) for our adventures. Whilst getting our holiday supplies in Asda yesterday I wore Eve in the sling in the hammock style, so she was lying across me. It was very cute and she looked really comfy. Nicer for her to sleep lying down rather that upright.

To have a look at the Peanut Shell company:

I think that the new sling is going to be a bit hit for the next couple of weeks as we wander about camp sites and festival fields.

Eve and Jake

Eve and her baby buddy Jake had a lovely time in the park together last week. It so nice to see her interact more with other babies. Already she seems to be growing up very fast.

Daddy and Eve at The Lido last week

Yesterday we took the big decision to move house. We'll be leaving our lovely flat of 11 years, going to a 3 bedroom house in Totterdown. Finally we have become real adults it seems. A baby and a full size house. We're moving out in a couple of weeks time, which seems like a bit of a whir but the time is definitely right.  We both felt a positive attraction to the new house and area of Bristol which is the opposite side of town to us at the moment. We're feeling very lucky and hopeful about our move. 

One thing that will have to change is the Lido pool. We've been members there for about 4 years so we'll be really sorry to say goodbye to it and all the wonderful people who work there. However, I reacon we'll try and have a 'date' there occasionally!

Eve enjoying a strawberry in the park



Thursday 24 July 2014

To bump or not to bump?!


Eve now tends to sleep on her side which is very cute, she wriggles around all over the place.  I keep worrying about her getting her legs stuck in between the cot bars during the night-time whilst I'm asleep. She loves flipping herself over at the moment - I can never be sure which direction she will be facing inside the cot when I go in to see her. 

Even though it's really warm weather I've put her back into a baby sleeping bag, after finding her with her legs stuck on a few occasions. She only wears a nappy inside the sleeping bag with the fan in her room on full blast. The fan is definitely helping, she slept through for 6 hours last night - a revelation - as it's taken a week and a half to get back towards her normal sleeping routine since coming back from holiday.

I'm fairly sure that I won't go down the route of bumpers, however some friends told me about a couple of 'safe' designs that I thought I would look at.

The Wonder Bumper


The Wonder Bumper by American company 'Go Mama Go Designs'

Vertical padding protects the baby. Each vertical pad is zipped on to individual cot rails. The zip design is out of reach of the baby. The padding is 100% polyester with cotton flannel design. Reversible mix and match options, with designs for girls, boys and neutral.  You can order a sample from their website (above) to try before you buy a full set.  Apparently the average amount of rails on a cot are 38. In the UK on Amazon they offer a 24 pack which is £144 plus shipping. 

Please click the link to look at the Wonder Bumper on Amazon UK:

Personally I think these are incredibly expensive.  I wouldn't be able to justify spending that amount of money on some polyester padding. I'm also not keen on there being too much man-made fabric around my baby.  However, I'm sure that the Wonder Bumper probably does work wonders for lots of parents out there!

Airwrap


Airwrap 2 or 4 sided bumpers

I think that I prefer this idea by Australian brand Airwrap; they are mesh fabric bumpers that can either go on all four sides of the cot or just on cot beds with solid ends. 

The velcro attaches on the outside of the cot ensuring that little hands cannot undo them. As the Airwrap is a mesh it allows the air to flow around the cot, making them breathable, and reduces the risk of the baby over-heating. They are designed to squash down if stood on by a baby in the cot, and will then spring back up after the child has moved away.

There are many different varieties and designs, or you could buy simple white. They range from about £15-£40 depending on the type that you require. 

Airwrap can be bought in quite a few places online - so I would recommend searching to find a company that is closest to you.















Of course if you prefer to use a normal padded, fabric bumper that is completely your call - the main thing that I've learnt as a new mum is to just go with my instinct and do what I feel is right. Everyone has different opinions - that's what makes the world go round.



Wednesday 23 July 2014

A few tips for holidays with your baby

Eve is generally very good at falling asleep by herself in the cot after she has had her evening milk. We put her mobile on the 'jungle sounds' setting when we put her to bed and she often sings herself to sleep. Thankfully I thought of taking 'Sammy the seahorse' with us on our trip to Greece. 

Her seahorse was really good, because of course we didn't have the mobile or a cot, so the seahorse which plays lullaby's and lights up was useful. It was something that she could associate with sleeping, is a toy that she's used to and was small enough to fit in the suitcase.


It also comes in blue and green too.







Eve didn't like being left in the room where she was sleeping as it was alien to her and very dark, so this little night light did a good job!


The most handy thing I took on holiday was a small bottle of laundry washing liquid, it really was invaluable.

Just pour some of the hand-wash liquid that you use at home and put it in a small travel bottle - it worked wonders. As I couldn't take Eve's washable nappies (wouldn't fit in the suitcase and I didn't want to bother our hosts with washing clothes each day), I just took two of them with one wrapper and enough nappy liners for the week. Eve wears a double washable nappy during the night-time, so I put one on her each night and washed it out each morning. Being able to wash some of Eve's clothes was good too so that food stains didn't set in.


I've read a fair bit that says babies should not be given mineral water - due to high levels of sodium (salt) or sulphates. However, when we were in Greece we were told not to drink the tap water and that we should use bottled water to make up formula. I didn't stress about it, it was one of those things that we could not avoid, and at least we were lucky enough to have clean water to drink in the first place.

Of course, I wouldn't give her mineral water unnecessarily, but I felt that for a week we could break the rules a bit. 


Another thing that was really useful were baby liquid medicine with syringes. If you squirt a bit of medicine in their mouths as the plane is taking off or coming down it helps to pop their ears. Alternatively you could try a Vicks vapour stick. Hold it under their nose, when they breathe in their ears should pop. I've not tried this but it sounds good.


I knew that the air stewards would fill up the baby bottles for formula, so I took milk powder ready to go in clean bottles. Thankfully I also took a couple of 'ready-to-feed' bottles of formula (unopened through customs is fine). When we were on the plane the trolley was blocking the aisle for the majority of the flight so it would have been quite difficult to ask them for water anyway. If you're going on a long haul flight I would think it will be easier to obtain water for bottles though.

During the last few weeks we have started to really notice how much Eve is developing. She tries hard to communicate with us to let us know what she needs or wants. She's a real Daddy's girl and adores playtime with him.

Eve strumming her ukelele, rather than hitting or biting it like she used to do


Wearing her big girl pyjamas - a gift from her Aunt Jayne and Uncle Peter. She looked so proud the evening that we put these on her. She had such a big grin for about 20 minutes before going to bed.

This week Eve has started flipping from her back to her front whilst she is in her cot and keeps getting her feet stuck in between the bars. She usually sleeps in a sleeping bag, but at the moment it's so warm that she just sleeps in pyjamas. I've never used a bumper in the cot, and am very strict on having nothing inside the cot with her. We went to the weigh in at the baby clinic yesterday (Eve weighed 16lb 12oz) so I asked the midwife what I should do. She told me that I shouldn't use a bumper and that I should try to place some rolled up towels around the edges of the cot. To be honest I don't really see the difference between this idea and a bumper, so I think we're just going to leave Eve to wriggle around and learn what to do.

Eve at Bristol Harbour Festival

If we hold Eve's hands whilst she is in a sitting position she easily moves into a standing position which is fun. Daddy is teaching her how to get a better grip on crawling which as yet she's not quite managing, but is definitely getting closer to.






Thursday 17 July 2014

Meeting the Skaliotis Clan from Melbourne


We had only been back from Greece for a day and a half, but yesterday morning we wandered over to Temple Meads Station to take the train to Bath Spa. We met my lovely cousin Maryanne, her amusing husband Greg, their boys Ealef and Conor and Greg's parents for lunch at Giraffe.

After quite a few years of emails bouncing back and forth, it was so nice to finally meet them during their trip to England. We spent a couple of hours chatting and discussing the Boutsiavaras, Fergusson and Skaliotis families whilst we ate. Eve is a very lucky girl and was given some beautiful gifts.

Maryanne's (Marianthi) younger brother George (Yiorgis) has lived in England for about fifteen years. I met him first around the year 2000. He is a total legend and lives with his wife Maxine and their two girls Erin and Ava in Kent. I speak to him quite often, though the last time we saw them was at our wedding three years ago. 

It was so good to meet Maryanne, she's just as lovely as George, so exuberant and easy to get on with.  I wish that we could have spent longer with them - and sunk a few glasses of wine!











Sam enjoyed speaking Greek with Greg's parents and made both the boys laugh at some of the sentences he was coming out with!

Minnie Mouse, Eve's new friend

What an incredible month July has been. In the past week I've met two more of my Greek cousin's, Ilias in Greece and Maryanne from Melbourne. Maryanne's father Con is the younger brother of my father Babis. There is a big Greek community in Melbourne. Con and a few of his brothers (my Greek grandparents had nine children) moved there about 50 years ago in search of a better life.

The two cousins

I love the fact that Eve has such a large family spread around the world. She is a sociable baby and enjoys meeting new people. However we have noticed in the past week that she is changing slightly and looks a bit concerned when she is passed to new people. We will continue to make sure that she is constantly out and about socialising so that she doesn't get to clingy. Though of course me and Daddy both adore the fact that she loves us so much and feels safe and secure with us.

Sam has family in Australia too and of course we've got some great friends living over there now too - Desson, Fash and Jamie. We're hoping to make it over there in the next few years!




Wednesday 16 July 2014

The Fergusson Family's trip to Greece

The view that my father looks out on

We've just come home after spending a wonderful week in Greece. When I found out that I was pregnant I decided that I wanted to take our baby to see my father in Athens, as it's his first grandchild. I love planning trips away and spent most of this year planning the logistics of travelling with Eve.

I'm sure that for most parents the worry is the actual travelling. I took various supplies to aid us on our journey; some of which were really handy and others that I didn't actually use. 

On the flight from Heathrow to Athens Eve fell asleep as we were waiting to taxi across the air field. We were both feeling most happy that she had decided to 'play ball' when after taking off she woke up and started crying - pretty sure due to her ears not popping. She wouldn't drink from her bottle (which is advised during take off as the sucking combats the ear pain), so finally I gave her a small shot of ibuprofen medicine (syringed in to her mouth). Due to this she had to swallow which made her ears pop. 




She had made a lot of noise for about fifteen minutes and Sam and I were starting to seriously worry that she was going to cry for the whole flight. Thankfully, she promptly stopped crying and fell asleep. 

Unfortunately this situation was made worse by a rather horrible girl who was sat next to us on the end of our row of seats. I said hello to her when we sat down, and then asked her if she would mind if I got up to change the baby before we took off and she rolled her eyes at me and gave me such a look. She made us feel really uncomfortable for the first half of the flight. I'm so glad that Eve slept for the majority of the journey in the plane so that we could have a few drinks and relax a bit - we needed it! 

We were collected from Athens airport by a lovely guy called Stavros, who held up a sign with my name. I paid an extra 10 euros to the hotel for this service - which I totally recommend if you're travelling with a baby. The thought of having to find a taxi after the flight was a bit of a no no for me.  


If anyone is visiting Glyfada in Athens I fully recommend Brasil Suites Apartments.  The staff were friendly and inviting. We were given a map and were shown lots of places nearby that were good to visit. As we arrived early evening, we wandered down to the beach with Eve in her pram. It was still very hot even though it was 7pm.

Thankfully the place that we chose to eat at was fantastic. The food on the menu was modern and interesting. The herby chicken salad and octopus were incredible. Efharisto poli Balux Cafe!










The waiter was a great guy, we enjoyed chatting Greek with him and he recommended a good, inexpensive Greek wine to accompany our meal.













Unfortunately during our week in Greece Eve did not sleep well due to the heat. Even though we had air con in our room she would only sleep for 2-3 hours at a go, so we both felt totally exhausted from lack of sleep when we arrived home in England. It felt a bit like nursing a newborn baby a bit as Eve has been sleeping through the night since she was 9 weeks old. I'm so glad that she is now getting back into her normal sleeping routine - slowly but surely.

It was great having an apartment with a sink, fridge and freezer. Something that I really recommend to any parent's taking their baby on holiday is to take some hand wash fabric liquid with you. I bought a re-fillable bottle from Boots chemist and filled it up. It was probably the most useful thing that I took with us. Baby food can leave stains so it's good to wash clothes straight away if you can, and then wash them properly once you get back home after your holiday. If you're in a hot country the clothes will dry in a matter of hours. Also good for any baby 'accidents' in the nappy area!

In the morning we had breakfast downstairs, Eve really enjoyed watermelon during this trip.















The thing that was strange for me and Sam during this holiday was relaxing by the pool. Before Eve arrived if we visited somewhere we would always be off trekking around finding local historic attractions. However, having Eve with us in such a hot place we decided to just chill by the pool the next day. We got chatting to a lovely Australian-Greek family and spent a few hours with them discussing our families.

Eve really enjoyed being in the pool. Baths and swimming have been slow work for Eve. The hot weather meant that Eve actually wanted to get into the nice cool swimming pool.


Yiorgis, Myrsini, Sam and Eve at the restaurant in Volos

My uncle, Theo Yiorgis and his wife Myrsini collected us from our hotel and drove us to the Pelion Peninsular, 4 hours north of Athens along the coast. They have a holiday home there. As we approached the Pelion mountains we stopped at Volos to have lunch.

 
It was really hot sitting outside under the shade, the food was tasty and the owner who is a friend of theirs was very friendly. He allowed me to change Eve's nappy on a table at the back of the restaurant. 












Pretty much everyone that met Eve during our holiday fell in love with her! Lots of friendly people came up to us to say hello to her or kiss her.

My uncle and his wife are big Tsipouro fans (kind've like Italian Grappe - Sam's mum would love it I think)...














Also due to the hot weather we had a real breakthrough with Eve drinking water. Since she started on 'solid' food she's been quite slow to accept drinking water after a meal. However whilst we were in Greece she couldn't get enough of it. She decided that she loved drinking out of glasses!

Daddy and Eve

The journey through the mountains was pretty crazy, hairpin bends at every turn. It took an hour and ten minutes from Volos to my uncle's home. When we arrived Eve enjoyed looking at the vegetables in his garden.











The following day we relaxed on the beach at Horefto and had another lovely, long Greek lunch at a taverna on the beach.













Lunch at a taverna on Horefto beach, Pelion

Myrsini with Eve

















On Friday we got up early. Yiorgis drove Sam, myself and Eve up to Sozopolis, Halkidiki, four hours away. We went to have lunch with my aunt, Thea Ana and her son Ilias. They were both so welcoming and kind. I showed Ana some photos that my mother took when we went to Halkidiki when I was a baby. It was lovely to go to her home 33 years later as an adult. Ana cooked the most incredible traditional Greek lunch; meatballs with potatoes, and salad from vegetables grown in the garden with local feta cheese. It must have taken her a long time to create the meal. Ana and Ilias were so hospitable. I enjoyed the time we spent there so much. It was wonderful for us to meet more of our Greek family.

Ana serving the delicious meal that she made for us

My cousin Ilias with Eve
















Ana with Eve, she called her 'koukla' - baby doll!
















Three generations of the Boutsiavaras family - me and Eve, theo Yiorgis, thea Ana, cousin Ilias

As I write this I'm sad to say that I've just heard from Ana's daughter, Pipina.  Ana died yesterday; three days after our meeting. She was such a lovely lady, so warm and caring. We send our condolences to her family.


Back in Pelion the following day we went to Ag. Ioannis (St. John) had a short walk through the village to the beach, relaxed there and then had lunch outside a taverna.













Sam and I decided it was the nicest swim in the sea we've ever had. The aegean is such a glorious colour. The sea and beach were completely free of any pollution which was amazing to see.


We ate the best taramosalata in Ag. Ioannis that I've ever eaten. The man that owns the taverna is a fisherman. He catches the fish in the morning and then his wife and other family members cook the various fish dishes.  The taramosalata was one of the food highlights of the week.

Me and Eve in Ag. Ioannis

Our last day was spent down on the beach at Horefto. We went to a different taverna this time where we ate another incredible lunch. Sam and I tried Youvetsi (beef stew with orzo pasta) for the first time - a serious taste sensation. We're going to attempt making this at home sometime for sure.

















Watermelon time!

Sam and I cannot thank my uncle Yiorgis and Myrsini enough. They were so hospitable and took such great care of us throughout the week. Yiorgis drove us long distances over the mainland, and made us feel comfortable and welcome in their beautiful holiday home.


Holy mountain just before sunrise on the day we left Pelion. It is on the third finger of the Halkidiki region that can be seen across the Aegean sea.


Sunrise as we left Pelion

Daddy and Eve at the airport, waiting to fly back to England.
















It was an experience that we shall never forget.  We have so many memories spending time with family in different parts of mainland Greece. I am glad that Eve will be able to read this blog when she is older and see the wonderful people that she met.

A lovely Bristolian lady sat next to us on the plane home. She really made the journey enjoyable for us as she put us at ease. She is a grandmother and lives in South Gloucestershire and was very good playing with Eve. The couple sitting behind us were really nice to us too. Eve cried a little bit but was generally very good and was awake for the majority of the flight. I gave up trying to get her to go to sleep as she was just too excited about touching so many new textures.

The lady told me that a Vicks vapour stick wafted under a baby's nose can help clear the airways and make their ears pop - I'll definitely try this next time!

This was a revelation compared to our outward journey. We were so glad to sit next to her and chatted about how much we all love living in the Bristol area.

Needless to say we were very happy when we finally arrived home later that evening.