Tuesday 29 March 2016

Maybe Measles?


Following on from my email on Thursday: after collecting Eve early from nursery with a high temperature on Wednesday afternoon, we are fairly sure that she had measles which began early last week.

She became really ill on Friday with a raging fever that was on and off for three days, with sore eyes (couldn't bare daylight), sore ears, aching limbs, sore mouth with white spots on her tongue and a rash all over her body. Everything suddenly seemed to drop into place. Eve had been telling me since the beginning of the week that her arms hurt and she kept waking up with sore eyes in the middle of the night. She also had a cold, which is part of the symptoms. I kept looking at her arms and not seeing any signs of bruising I dismissed it, but I kept wondering what it was. She had a scratch on her arm so I thought maybe she meant that. 

When I collected her from nursery on Wednesday she seemed fine and was enjoying an egg from an Easter egg hunt in the garden.

Eve had sore teeth last week so I put her illness down to that as she really suffers with teething pain. It was on the evening of Good Friday when she cried out in bed, I went up to her and she was pouring with sweat and told me that her skin was itchy. Thankfully my mum had arrived to stay with us for Easter weekend, so we both looked at the rash which covered her body. We discussed it and figured it seemed to be measles. My mum nursed both my brother and I through it when we were small, and my mum's younger brother also had it when he was little. She said that she remembered the sore eyes as her brother was kept in a dark room for days.

I phoned Sam's Dad, Grandad Col, who is a semi-retired surgeon. We are so lucky to have his expertise on the end of the phone. I asked for his advice, and he said that once immunised you shouldn't be able to get measles. I checked Eve's medical notes. She had the first immunisation for MMR at 12 months old, and will be having the second batch at 3 years 4 months old.


After I got off the phone from Grandad Col I phoned Sam in Greece to let him know. When I hung up the phone from Sam I had a voicemail waiting for me from Colin. He asked if I had done the meningitis glass test, as he was unsure if it was measles. My heart raced, I dropped the phone and ran upstairs with a glass in a panic. I'm so glad that my mum was there to reassure me when we did the glass test as I was freaking out. I called Grandad Col back to let him know, and he told me that he had looked into it and that apparently there is a 10% chance of getting measles, mumps or rubella (MMR) between the two sets of injections. So it was bad luck for Eve, but in the long run it's good for her immune system to get these things early in life. Once both sets of injections have been administered it is impossible to get these illnesses I believe.

The many positions of sleep!

The rash didn't last that long and wasn't too severe. I bathed her and applied aqueous calamine cream (absorbs better and feels nicer that the calamine lotion of the olden days). I wonder if there is the possibility that because she had the first immunisation that the illness wasn't as aggressive as it could have been?

On Sunday morning, after medicine, Eve became a bit brighter and sat at the table with me and Granny T whilst we ate egg-soldiers for Easter Sunday breakfast. Eve didn't eat any but managed to wander about the lounge finding plastic easter eggs. She enjoyed putting them in a little bucket. 





Hunting for eggs completely zonked her out and she slept for the rest of the day on the sofa. She went to bed on Sunday evening, woke a couple of times with sore eyes and in need of a drink through the night, but slept until 11.30am the next day - 18 hours of sleep. After that point she seemed on the road to recovery and ate a bit of a gingerbread man that and drank a few glasses of milk. She had barely eaten a thing for the past four days, so this made me feel happier.


Of course as it's been Easter weekend the doctors surgery has been closed. I phoned them this morning to let them know that we thought Eve had measles (it is a notifiable disease). The doctor said that without seeing her they couldn't confirm, and that because Eve is so much better we didn't need to bring her in to be seen. The doctor said that they had one other case recently which could have been measles but they hadn't confirmed it. When I spoke to nursery this morning they said that some other children have had this, but the doctors won't confirm it as measles. Seems strange to me, but I guess it's difficult, as unless you see the child at the height of the illness it must be difficult for a doctor to say. When we were young doctors used to visit your house, but I'm guessing that doesn't happen anymore.

I personally think it was measles, and am glad to have Eve's first real illness nearly finished. I looked at the symptoms of similar illnesses and they just didn't sound like what Eve had.

I'm so glad that Eve is feeling much better, as today I am back at work. She is recovering today with a very tired Daddy, who arrived home last night from his Greek tour, with a stuffed Peppa Pig toy for Eve. She gave her Daddy a deep hug when he walked into the lounge last night, and a huge smile spread across her face. She cuddled Peppa in bed all night long.

Although Eve was ill, I loved sitting on the sofa with her day after day, cradling her in my arms whilst she slept. We were lucky that she was ill during the Easter break so that I could look after her. I would have felt awful if I had to leave at home that ill whilst I was at work. We are so lucky to have paracetamol and ibuprofen, imagining when those medicines were not yet available is pretty scary.

Wednesday 23 March 2016

Happy Easter!

Mummy and Eve at nursery

Daddy is off djing in Greece this week, so we had a very relaxed weekend together at home before he headed off.


On Saturday afternoon whilst Eve had a nap on the sofa I baked some mini bundt's. I was excited as I had just bought some cheap silicon moulds whilst shopping at Lidl that morning. I used a Victoria sponge recipe - they came out ok - a bit heavy but I was quite pleased. We enjoyed eating them for afternoon tea together.


We took a walk to the park before dinner, and thankfully I found the colourful Boots toddler reins that my sister-in-law leant us. I packed them away a couple of years ago and completely forgot where they were. They randomly turned up at the weekend which was a result, as we recently lost the strap for our Little Life back pack.

                                                    Daddy and Eve - Boots toddler reins

I must say, as much as the Little Life back pack is great and Eve loves it, we both felt that we had a sturdier grip on her whilst using these Boots reins. The arched strap connects at the back of each arm, so you take the child's full weight, rather than the singular Little Life strap which connects to the top of the back pack.

At one point Eve stumbled and almost fell face first onto the pavement, but Daddy pulled her so that she didn't hit the floor. If she had been wearing the Little Life back pack she most probably would have swung sideways and might possibly have hurt herself. 

Wells Road is a busy main road connecting the South West with Bristol. There are lots of HGV's, and cars don't seem to stick to the speed limit very much, so I definitely feel more confident having reins on Eve when we are out walking.


Whilst we ate our bundt's that afternoon we sat round the table decorating Eve's Easter bonnet. They are having a party at nursery this week with a bonnet competition. Unfortunately, ours is a bit of a cop out. It's just a hat for £1 from The Works and some self adhesive decorations. It was good fun though. I even found a bit of ribbon to tie on it. 

On Sunday evening whilst we were reading books at bedtime, Eve said clearly to me, "I'll do it," when I asked her if she wanted me to sing a nursery rhyme. She used to say 'Eve do it,' when I asked her questions. So this is a big step up.

Eve wasn't keen on the bonnet until we arrived at nursery. Then she was very happy and wanted to show it to her key workers; Rich, Tripta, Amber and Vanessa.

I'll have to step up my game in the years to come. A fond memory from my childhood is one Easter Sunday when I may have been about 7 years old. My mum made matching dresses for me and my little sister; mine was green and hers was blue. We wore them to church on a sunny morning with Easter bonnets on our heads. I remember lots of little old ladies from the congregation coming up to admire our dresses. Oh the days of old!


Dear Eve woke me at 4.30am a couple of nights ago by softly calling for me. I went into her bedroom and soothed her - this is the first time that I've got up in the middle of the night for a long time. She told me that her teeth were sore so I gave her some medicine in the dark. She whimpered a bit but soon went back to sleep. Her molars are almost through but not quite. 

Nursery called me yesterday afternoon to tell me that she had a temperature of 39 degrees. They gave her some Calpol but she was still very quiet and sad. They asked me to come and pick her up. When I arrived she was in the middle of having her dinner. She does have a sore throat and her teeth hurt but other than that she was fine. Because they administered medicine it meant that she isn't allowed into nursery for 48 hours. At first I was a bit put out, but now I'm feeling positive, it means that I can enjoy a day with my girl in the sunshine today instead of going to work. Long Easter weekend here we come. Have a good one peeps!








Wednesday 16 March 2016

Spring is here!


    Big thanks to our dear friend Beagle, our photographer: http://www.benjamineagle.com/     
Photos copyright Benjamin Eagle      

Eve made her first solo performance on Saturday afternoon. Our lounge was full of friends; Eve was having a great time and obviously felt very comfortable in their presence. She had been asking us all week about Mike and Barney, who were coming to visit, as the last time they stayed with us she adored playtime with Mike.

                                            Eve loves counting the pumpkins in this book

Sam and I loved watching her playing on the floor with him. She was rolling around laughing, playing with bubbles and various other games. She brought out her karaoke disco machine to show him, and suddenly burst out into song. She sang with confidence in front of us all which made me and Sam so proud. She definitely gets her love of performing from her Dad. That kind of thing is my worst nightmare ;-)

Mike and Eve

 Tea time! 

Similar enamel tea set can be bought from: 

Beagle, Olivia, their dog Luna and a friend called Oli were also with us on Saturday afternoon, so it was a full house. By the time they arrived, Sam and I were tired already and were necking back coffee. We had taken Eve shopping in Cabot Circus that morning to get her fitted for some new Clarks shoes, she is now a 5F. We were pleased at how well she behaved during the trip. I bought her a little pink toy kitten as a treat, which she chose herself. She was completely thrilled with it and has been sleeping with it each night.

Eve's new shoes - Clarks Little Pip - Anthracite Leather

Before we left the shopping centre we let Eve have a go on a kids ride-on car. We didn't bother putting any money in it; she simply enjoyed being in it moving the steering wheel!

                                                             Eve with her new pet, Pink

The weather was fantastic on Saturday and Sunday; spring has really sprung, flowers are everywhere and the trees are blossoming too. We took a few walks to different parks over the course of the weekend; we all enjoyed feeling the warm sun on our faces.

                                                            Eve in Arnos Vale Cemetery

Me and the lovely Olivia

Daddy and Eve


                                               Saturday afternoon - Arnos Vale Park

We chilled out at home on Saturday evening with our friends drinking and eating pizza's. It's still a rare occurrence seeing people during the evenings on the weekend so Sam and I got really involved having a good time. As can be expected, we both felt pretty worse for wear on Sunday. But heading out into the sunshine with Eve and our friends was just what the doctor ordered.


                                                Sunday afternoon - Perrett Park, Bristol

                                                                           A kiss! Perrett Park

                                                            Enjoying the baa baa sheep

After the park session Eve slept in her pram, which was perfect as it meant that we could go and relax outside the Star and Dove pub in Totterdown together. Eve woke up after an hour, so I nipped her inside to the ladies, where she used the potty. At nursery they automatically stick her on the potty as soon as she wakes up, but last week she woke up from her nap and said that she needed to use the potty. They asked her if she needed help, but she said no and went off and used the potty alone. She is doing so well with it, mummy is most pleased.

                                  Fun with friends at The Star and Dove - Totterdown, Bristol

This past week Eve has been telling me that she doesn't want to wear a nappy at bedtime. Each time I turn the light out she then tells me that she does want it on, so I have obliged. I'm kind of following her lead. I might try her without a nappy at night-time over Easter weekend when I don't have to work, so that if I have to get up in the night it won't be such an issue. She does still have the occasional accident at nursery so I am slightly wary and don't want to push her.

Daddy and Eve - the Star and Dove, Totterdown

We had such a fab time catching up with our friends, and the good weather made it all the better. Though, as old age approaches, Sam and I have found this week a bit tricky as we have felt so tired. I know that we are both looking forward to our family weekend, which is coming up directly, before Daddy heads off to DJ in Greece next week.



Tuesday 8 March 2016

Spiderman, Ducks and Swimming

 Spiderman!

Our weekend kicked off well. I arrived at nursery on Thursday evening to see Eve waving out the window to me in her old Tweenie room. This is the first time I've seen her there since she started in Bouncies, so this filled me with happiness.

I've taken the past three Friday's off work to sort out things at home. I seem to have become lost in the bliss of the three day weekend, which makes life so much more fun and easier. It means that I can spend quality time on Saturday and Sunday with Eve, as the cooking and cleaning has already been done.

Bright and early on Saturday morning my sister stopped by to drop off Jago. It was off the cuff as she needed to finish an essay. It's great living nearby, so that we can both help each other during these kind of situations. Jago and Eve had a fantastic day together. Jago was good as gold; barely shed a tear, ate well, slept twice and enjoyed being with us. I loved hanging out with him and Eve; I smiled a lot.

Showing her younger cousin how to work the karaoke disco


Reading Eve's favourite story, it made Jago so relaxed that he fell asleep

Sam was working upstairs in the studio, so once Jago woke up from his morning nap we went up to see him. We danced, played with some small musical instruments, as well as letting the kids play Sam's drum kit.

Jago ate his entire sandwich and then most of Eve's too

After lunch Eve wanted to make Play Doh creations with Jago. She showed him how to use different tools, and how to flatten a piece out to make a print in it. Eve really enjoyed looking after Jago; but we told her that when they're older Jago no doubt will be looking after her :-)


Claire collected Jago mid afternoon, so that we could shoot off in the car to see Joe, Jilly and Lamorna which we had previously arranged. The morning had been grey and rainy, so we were all very glad that the sun started to shine. We headed out for a quick walk to the duck pond before Eve and Lamorna's dinner-time.

Eastville Park Duck Pond

Eve was ecstatic seeing the ducks and birds. There was also a rather agro swan that was attacking various ducks; possibly protecting eggs or maybe just having a bad day?! Eve enjoyed watching the different animal scenes unfold around her. She became tired quite quickly though, and I ended up carrying her most of the way around the park - so much for my great idea of travelling light (didn't take the pram). However, this was the first trip we've taken where I only packed three bags and nothing else. It felt pretty amazing not having to pack the car full of stuff.

This weekend I also packed away Eve's high chair. I cleaned it and stashed it in our store cupboard - this felt so liberating. It's cool sharing meals sitting round the table together, all of us on chairs or the bench. And, the best thing is; no more gross high chair cleaning, yippee...

Daddy and Eve during our walk to the pond

Eve really enjoyed bath-time at Lamorna's house and went to bed without any fuss or bother - Mummy and Daddy hi-five moment. Sam and I ate a wonderful Oriental feast with Jilly and Joe, and then the boys headed over to our house for boys night, and Jilly and I went to bed as we were exhausted.

Eve and Lamorna both slept through the night and woke up just before 7am. We got them ready and headed out to Horfield swimming pool. Jilly takes Lamorna every weekend which is impressive to me. Public swimming pools always seem to offer up some kind of issue and we aren't so keen on visiting them. I know I'm a bit of a pool snob as we were members of the Clifton Lido for years - but the reason we became members was because every time we went to a public pool there was always some kind of problem; with the warmth of the pool, the amount of people, the carpark etc etc.



Unfortunately this time was no different. We arrived at the pool, I had explained to Eve what we were doing, but when we opened the door to the changing room she took one look inside and lay down on the floor and howled. Ladies leaving the room gave me sympathetic looks and encouraging words to Eve but she stayed where she was. Jilly came back and picked up Eve and I took Lamorna. Eve was pretty much distraught and I wasn't sure whether to try to change her into her swim suit at all. We found a family changing room which we could thankfully all fit into. I sat with Eve calming her down, whilst tears poured down her face. After watching Lamorna get into her swimming nappy and swim suit Eve wanted to get into hers. But by the time Eve was in her swim suit and we arrived at the children's pool there was a sign saying, 'pool full.' 


I was completely gutted. The lifeguard said that only two of us could enter the pool, so I told Jilly and Lamorna to, as I was sure that Eve would get upset if we went in without them. Eve and I had to sit on the side getting cold for 10-15 minutes. By the time we were allowed into the pool her enthusiasm had gone and she was feeling scared again. I sat on the steps in the water and beckoned her in, as I didn't want to force her. Eve stood on the side of the pool looking nervous, but full of anticipation as she could see Lamorna and all the other children having a good time. She nodded at me and came over to the steps. I carried her around in the water for a few minutes, but she started whimpering and told me that she wanted to get out and go home. 

I know that these rules are there for our safety, but people who don't have children don't understand these situations, and the lifeguard was giving no leeway. After the ordeal of getting her to the pool in her swim suit, with her feeling happy about swimming, and then not being able to was saddening. Looking at her little worried face as she stood on the edge of the pool was heart breaking. I must say that it reminded me of myself. I was scared of the water when I was small and didn't learn to swim until I was about 7.


Our trip to the pool wasn't in vain however. During the time that we sat on the edge of the pool together I pointed out the children who were swimming and splashing about. We also watched a little boy on the edge of the pool who held his mother's hands and then jumped in. This really impressed Eve and she has talked about it for a few days. She was keen to tell her nursery carer about the swimming pool on Monday morning. We're planning to take Eve again when Daddy can come with us next weekend.

I have tried to be as encouraging about swimming as I can, and pulled out a photo album last night to show Eve photos of herself in the pool and sea when she was smaller. She liked looking at these as well as playing with her Little Mermaid swim suit. 

Sunday was of course Mother's Day. Eve and I were home from the pool by 10am so we spent a nice day pottering about together. At one point I was cleaning the bathroom upstairs whilst Daddy was watching tv. I came downstairs to find Eve happily sitting at the table watching her music videos on Youtube, drawing all over her face. It made me laugh and the ink on her face stayed there until bath time - we even went to the park like it.


Eve started swinging her legs to gain momentum on the swings for the first time!



Thursday 3 March 2016

Prepping for Mother's Day

Eve holding my Mother's Day daffodil

At the beginning of the week, the children made finger print Mother's Day cards at nursery. They made pictures of flowers with their fingers. Eve loved showing me her paintings when she gave me the card this week. Each child was given a daffodil (not yet in bloom) to give to their mum. Eve and I carefully took ours home the other day. I showed her how to cut the end of the stem and we put it in a glass of water in the kitchen, where she could see it. I told her that we would watch it for a couple of days and then we would see the flower open. 


Yesterday, during Daddy-Daughter morning the daffodil opened. Eve raced off to nursery that afternoon clutching the flower to show all her friends. Daddy said that she was very excited. When I collected her last night I expected the flower to be most probably destroyed by happy little fingers, but the nursery staff managed to find it. So, Eve and I took it home again. I'm glad that they found it as I was quite excited myself at seeing the lovely flower that she gave me. It's reminded me of when Claire and I were young. We didn't have much money, so we would go and pick flowers from the hedgerows in Cornwall, or pick some daffodils from a verge to give our mum for Mother's Day - I guess we'd probably get told off for doing that nowadays.


Eve is looking so grown up. I put my hair in bunches one morning before work, walked into the lounge to see that Daddy had put Eve's hair in bunches too. She was thrilled that we both had our hair the same way. However, we still have struggles getting dressed in the mornings. She was particularly upset this morning as I told her that a man would be taking photos of her and her friends at nursery today. I guess I didn't explain it very well - the thought of it probably scared her, just like Father Christmas! 


Thankfully when she arrived at nursery she was happy to be with her friends and easily settled down with the nursery staff. She's very sociable and will happily sit on the lap of lots of different adult carers. I didn't realise that it's World Book Day today, otherwise I guess I would have dressed her up as Goldilocks, we did manage to put her in a wintry dress and trainers for her photo shoot though. Makes a nice change to her usual leggings :-)


On Monday evening Eve and I had a real struggle during bath time, whilst Daddy was out at work. We both went to bed tearful, upset and exhausted. It was with great thanks to the universe that the following evening Eve was really well behaved. First off, she walked straight up the stairs holding onto the bannisters with ease. That's the first time that she has walked upstairs 'quickly' and with confidence. Her friend Agnes who is 2 months younger flies up and down the stairs after her older sister Elodie. It's interesting to see how quickly kids take things onboard when they have siblings. That night Eve also took off each piece of her clothing by herself and put most of it in the laundry box. Eve felt proud that she had done well walking up the stairs and taking off her clothes; both these key areas helped her feel happier with the bath time routine, which was great.



We had the best bath we've had for a while, and whilst reading Goldilocks to her in bed that night (her favourite at the moment; though I must admit I am getting bored of reading it night after night - but there are worse things I could be doing, right?!), we said 'sorry' to each other about the previous night's events. After she said sorry she asked me to kiss her. I came downstairs feeling elated, after feeling utterly miserable the previous night. I could tell that she knew she had upset me the night before. During bath time I try reasoning with her, explaining and questioning; I hope, and think that she is slowly taking these words on board.

Whilst pottering about at home last weekend, feeling positive vibes from the increase in sunlight, I finally got around to making some super food bars. I've been meaning to do it for ages, and have been a follower of Emily Von Euw, This Rawsome Vegan Life, for many years. Her recipes are amazing. Of course, I didn't have some of the ingredients listed in this recipe, so I followed it loosely. I think I chucked in too many cacao nibs, and as I didn't have dates I put in apricots and prunes, and some goji berries so the overall flavour was a bit confusing, as my husband put it. But they tasted pretty great to me. (A word of warning, these things are serious super poop bars!)

See recipe below. 
They are easy to make - you set them in the fridge, so no cooking involved:

You could make the mixture into cup cakes or balls if you wanted, instead of bars. I used the Nutribullet to mix the ingredients together, and it worked well. Now that I've done them once, I think I'll become hooked on making other strange and wonderful snacks. I did offer one to Eve, she looked at it for a moment and then decided against it. Ah well...more for Mama.

Cup cake version with melted cacao nibs on top

I guess we have a bit of time before we have to start worrying about this, but I noticed that a local mum had posted about Kiddle this week on Facebook. It's a safe search engine that kids can use; it has no connection to Google. 

                                                                 http://www.kiddle.co/

I'm sure that by the time Eve is at this stage there'll be some other search engine, or hopefully Google will make their own; as they do everything the best :-)